Dating Safety Tips

Your safety is our top priority. While Denver Dating works hard to create a secure environment, it's important to take personal precautions when meeting new people. Here are essential safety guidelines for every online dater.

Before the First Date

Take these steps before arranging an in-person meeting:

• Video chat first: A quick video call helps verify identity and builds comfort before meeting in person.
• Research online: A simple search can confirm the person exists and matches their description.
• Share details with a friend: Tell someone you trust where you're going, who with, and when to expect you back.
• Keep personal information private: Avoid sharing home address, workplace, or financial details early on.

Choosing a Meeting Place

The right location makes a big difference in safety:

• Select public venues with other people around—coffee shops, restaurants, parks during daylight
• Avoid isolated locations, private residences, or places with limited exits
• Consider a group activity or double date for first meetings
• Pick a location you're familiar with or can easily navigate

During the Date

Stay aware and in control throughout your time together:

• Arrange your own transportation to and from the date
• Keep your phone charged and accessible
• Limit alcohol consumption to stay alert
• Trust your instincts—if something feels wrong, excuse yourself and leave
• Stay in public areas for the duration of the meeting

Red Flags to Watch For

Be cautious if someone:

• Pressures you to meet quickly or move relationships too fast
• Refuses to video chat or meet in public
• Asks for money or financial assistance
• Gives inconsistent stories about their life or job
• Displays controlling or disrespectful behavior
• Seems uncomfortable when you ask questions

After the Date

Post-date safety matters too:

• Let your friend know you arrived home safely
• Reflect on the interaction—did you feel respected and comfortable?
• Block or report users who made you uncomfortable
• Take your time before deciding on a second date

Reporting Concerns

If you experience suspicious behavior or feel unsafe, please contact our support team immediately. We take all reports seriously and will investigate promptly. You can also block any user through your account settings.